What is it like to grow up in a disabled household when you, yourself also have a disability? The insightful Emily Ladau chats to Peta about how even when your mother has a disability too, it doesn't mean a life of disability self acceptance by default. 

Connect with Emily: 

Instagram

Website

Her podcast; The accessible stall. 

Her book; Demystifying Disability



Connect with Peta:

Instagram @petahooke

The website: www.icantstandpodcast.com

Email:icantstandpodcast@gmail.com

Episode Transcript

What is it like to grow up in a disabled household when you, yourself also have a disability? The insightful Emily Ladau chats to Peta about how even when your mother has a disability too, it doesn't mean a life of disability self acceptance by default. 
Connect with Emily: 
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/emilyladau/?hl=en">Instagram</a>
<a href="https://emilyladau.com">Website</a>
<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/5DIpNbLMsho88G19sb627m">Her podcast; The accessible stall. </a>
<a href="https://emilyladau.com/book/">Her book; Demystifying Disability</a>
 
Connect with Peta:
Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/petahooke/">@petahooke</a>
The website: <a href="http://www.icantstandpodcast.com/">www.icantstandpodcast.com</a>
Email: <a href="mailto:icantstandpodcast@gmail.com">icantstandpodcast@gmail.com</a>
<a href="https://www.icantstandpodcast.com/post/emily-ladau-born-to-be-a-disability-advocate">Episode Transcript</a>

Have you ever wondered what it is like to live with a disability? The I Can't Stand Podcast is for everyone who has a question or just wondered about disability. No questions are off-limits any question you have is allowed.

Every week Peta will answer any question you have, based on her experiences as a single, 30- something woman who has Cerebral Palsy. Have a question?

Ask Peta on Instagram, contact her via the website or send her an email via icantstandpodcast@gmail.com 

 

Have you ever wondered what it is like to live with a disability? The I Can't Stand Podcast is for everyone who has a question or just wondered about disability. No questions are off-limits any question you have is allowed.
Every week Peta will answer any question you have, based on her experiences as a single, 30- something woman who has Cerebral Palsy.&nbsp;Have a question?
Ask Peta on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/petahooke/">Instagram</a>, contact her via the <a href="https://www.icantstandpodcast.com">website </a>or send her an email via <a href="mailto:icantstandpodcast@gmail.com">icantstandpodcast@gmail.com</a>&nbsp;
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Have you ever wondered what it is like to live with a disability? The I Can't Stand Podcast is for everyone who has a question or just wondered about disability.

The I Can't Stand Podcast

Have you ever wondered what it is like to live with a disability? The I Can't Stand Podcast is for everyone who has a question or just wondered about disability. No questions are off-limits any question you have is allowed.

Every week Peta will answer any question you have, based on her experiences as a single, 30- something woman who has Cerebral Palsy. Have a question?

Ask Peta on Instagram, contact her via the website or send her an email via icantstandpodcast@gmail.com

Emily Ladau: When you're NOT the only one 💛👩‍🦼👩‍🦼

In this episode of The I Can’t Stand Podcast, I speak with author and performer Pam Joy Wood about psychosocial disability, long term mental health recovery, and the power of self advocacy.

Pam lives with ADHD, complex PTSD, and a history of acute and chronic major depression. Through her solo show DYS-ORDER-ED and her memoir Five Fat Sausages, she shares what it means to survive systemic failure within healthcare, misdiagnosis, medication side effects, and institutional harm and how she rebuilt her life through creativity and radical joy.

As mentioned in the episode, DYS-ORDER-ED is available to download and watch for free here:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eCxwVCc4Qb0

You can find Pam’s memoir Five Fat Sausages here:
https://pavlovapress.co.nz/pam-wood-author-page/

Mental Health Free resources:
https://www.dropbox.com



Connect with Peta Hooke:

Instagram: @petahooke

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke

Website: www.icantstandpodcast.com

Email: icantstandpodcast@gmail.com

 

In this episode of The I Can&rsquo;t Stand Podcast, I speak with author and performer Pam Joy Wood about psychosocial disability, long term mental health recovery, and the power of self advocacy.
Pam lives with ADHD, complex PTSD, and a history of acute and chronic major depression. Through her solo show DYS-ORDER-ED and her memoir Five Fat Sausages, she shares what it means to survive systemic failure within healthcare, misdiagnosis, medication side effects, and institutional harm and how she rebuilt her life through creativity and radical joy.
As mentioned in the episode,&nbsp;DYS-ORDER-ED is available to download and watch for free here: <a href="https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eCxwVCc4Qb0">https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eCxwVCc4Qb0</a>
You can find Pam&rsquo;s memoir Five Fat Sausages here: <a href="https://pavlovapress.co.nz/pam-wood-author-page/">https://pavlovapress.co.nz/pam-wood-author-page/</a> Mental Health Free resources: <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/oqfe234zwc338cw9dgy86/Dys-Order-Ed-Our-Mental-Health-Gift-for-You.pdf?rlkey=uskt7fraiwimwo5ozl1iyy9x4&amp;e=50&amp;st=5qfinkxm&amp;dl=0">https://www.dropbox.com</a> 
Connect with Peta Hooke:
Instagram:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/petahooke" data-start="1672" data-end="1721">@petahooke</a>
Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke">https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke</a>
Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.icantstandpodcast.com/" data-start="1733" data-end="1795">www.icantstandpodcast.com</a>
Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:icantstandpodcast@gmail.com">icantstandpodcast@gmail.com</a>
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Psychosocial Disability, Self Advocacy and Creative Recovery with Pam Joy Wood

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/2fb3740d-3436-44af-8cc0-a91900716aa5/clips/d9d8a2a9-aaf4-4c28-a5e7-b3f30015f943/transcript

In this episode, Peta speaks with Jane Wardlaw about mentorship, mobility, and the deeply personal decision of when to start using a wheelchair. Jane shares her lived experience of growing up with muscular dystrophy, navigating changing mobility, and how a wheelchair became a tool for safety, freedom, and possibility rather than loss.

Together, they explore why mentorship matters for disabled people, especially when navigating identity, independence, and systems like the NDIS.

 

Connect with Jane:

https://substack.com/@janewardlaw

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-wardlaw

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janedisabilitylobbyist

Connect with Peta Hooke:

Instagram: @petahooke

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke

Website: www.icantstandpodcast.com

Email: icantstandpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, Peta speaks with Jane Wardlaw about mentorship, mobility, and the deeply personal decision of when to start using a wheelchair. Jane shares her lived experience of growing up with muscular dystrophy, navigating changing mobility, and how a wheelchair became a tool for safety, freedom, and possibility rather than loss.
Together, they explore why mentorship matters for disabled people, especially when navigating identity, independence, and systems like the NDIS.
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Connect with Jane:
<a href="https://substack.com/@janewardlaw?">https://substack.com/@janewardlaw</a>
LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-wardlaw-94b95a44/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-wardlaw</a>
Facebook:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/janedisabilitylobbyist">https://www.facebook.com/janedisabilitylobbyist</a>
Connect with Peta Hooke:
Instagram:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/petahooke" data-start="1672" data-end="1721">@petahooke</a>
Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke">https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke</a>
Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.icantstandpodcast.com/" data-start="1733" data-end="1795">www.icantstandpodcast.com</a>
Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:icantstandpodcast@gmail.com">icantstandpodcast@gmail.com</a>

Mentorship, Mobility and Knowing When to Use a Wheelchair: With Jane Wardlaw

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/2fb3740d-3436-44af-8cc0-a91900716aa5/clips/b3d69582-5ada-4cfb-a4c4-b3e9002cf42f/transcript

Linh Uendo joins The I Can’t Stand Podcast for an honest conversation about disability, drag, and growing up in a medicalised body. Born with Prune Belly Syndrome, Linh shares what it was like navigating childhood, body image, and visibility, and how drag became a space where she did not need to hide.



Connect with Linh Uendo:

Tiktok:https://www.tiktok.com/@littlelinhuendo
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littlelinhuendo

Connect with Peta Hooke:

Instagram: @petahooke

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke

Website: www.icantstandpodcast.com

Email: icantstandpodcast@gmail.com

Linh Uendo joins The I Can&rsquo;t Stand Podcast for an honest conversation about disability, drag, and growing up in a medicalised body. Born with Prune Belly Syndrome, Linh shares what it was like navigating childhood, body image, and visibility, and how drag became a space where she did not need to hide. 
Connect with Linh Uendo:
Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@littlelinhuendo?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@littlelinhuendo">https://www.tiktok.com/@littlelinhuendo</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/littlelinhuendo/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/littlelinhuendo</a>
Connect with Peta Hooke:
Instagram:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/petahooke" data-start="1672" data-end="1721">@petahooke</a>
Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke">https://www.tiktok.com/@petahooke</a>
Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.icantstandpodcast.com/" data-start="1733" data-end="1795">www.icantstandpodcast.com</a>
Email:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:icantstandpodcast@gmail.com">icantstandpodcast@gmail.com</a>

Disability and Drag: Living with Prune Belly Syndrome with Linh Uendo

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/2fb3740d-3436-44af-8cc0-a91900716aa5/clips/5945afba-1e2f-4ced-a720-b3e9001ce1a0/transcript

Emily Ladau: When you're NOT the only one 💛👩‍🦼👩‍🦼

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