The Better-Than-Average effect was a social study conducted, revealing that most people see themselves as superior to their average peers. Mathematically speaking, that reality does not compute. On today’s episode of the Built Different Podcast, Zach Clinton sits down with Licensed Professional Counselor, Debra Fileta, as she challenges listeners to take an honest inventory of themselves. Debra also encourages listeners to pursue healing in the aftermath of trauma.

Debra’s Book: Are You Really Okay? 

Debra’s Website

The Better-Than-Average effect was a social study conducted, revealing that most people see themselves as superior to their average peers. Mathematically speaking, that reality does not compute. On today’s episode of the Built Different Podcast, Zach Clinton sits down with Licensed Professional Counselor, Debra Fileta, as she challenges listeners to take an honest inventory of themselves. Debra also encourages listeners to pursue healing in the aftermath of trauma.Debra’s Book: <a href='https://www.amazon.com/s?k=are+you+really+okay&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw8eOLBhC1ARIsAOzx5cE4Goqdcs9L376l-DRPwcAxMIJqVizHnd8e4E13mmKlIyJkYB2-_-kaAjwsEALw_wcB&amp;hvadid=523153674899&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=9028761&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=5217119508250693199&amp;hvtargid=kwd-1211386386944&amp;hydadcr=7495_9612500&amp;tag=googhydr-20&amp;ref=pd_sl_20aw6kymmh_e'>Are You Really Okay? </a><a href='https://truelovedates.com/about-me/'>Debra’s Website</a>

The Built Different Podcast with Dr. Zach Clinton will air every Tuesday morning from here on out covering topics such as Leadership, Grit, Work Ethic, Relationships, Managing Anxiety and Depression, Isolation/Loneliness, Grief/Loss, Strengthening your Marriage & Family, Championship Mindset, Creating a Winning Culture, and so much more... Through meaningful interviews with some of America’s leading motivational speakers, athletes, counselors/psychologists, pastors, and more... Our heart and mission is to provide ENCOURAGEMENT, HOPE, and CHALLENGE to help push you past your limits and reach goals you never thought possible! Colossians 2:6-7 says, “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.”No matter what life throws our way, we must remember WHO WE ARE, by first remembering WHOSE WE ARE!

The Built Different Podcast with Dr. Zach Clinton will air every Tuesday morning from here on out covering topics such as Leadership, Grit, Work Ethic, Relationships, Managing Anxiety and Depression, Isolation/Loneliness, Grief/Loss, Strengthening your Marriage &amp; Family, Championship Mindset, Creating a Winning Culture, and so much more... Through meaningful interviews with some of America&rsquo;s leading motivational speakers, athletes, counselors/psychologists, pastors, and more... Our heart and mission is to provide ENCOURAGEMENT, HOPE, and CHALLENGE to help push you past your limits and reach goals you never thought possible! Colossians 2:6-7 says, &ldquo;So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.&rdquo;No matter what life throws our way, we must remember WHO WE ARE, by first remembering WHOSE WE ARE!

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The Built Different Podcast-Are You Really Okay? with Licensed Professional Counselor & Author, Debra Fileta, Ep. 029

In today’s episode, Dr. Henry Cloud, clinical psychologist and bestselling author joins Dr. Zach for a deep dive into one of the most important dynamics in every relationship: trust. Dr. Cloud blends Scripture, neuroscience, and decades of clinical experience to explain how trust can be built, broken, and restored. He breaks down the core ingredients that make a person trustworthy, the signs that someone may be unsafe, and the process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. Dr. Cloud also addresses how to set healthy boundaries without shutting people out, why trust is both emotional and spiritual, and how to discern when to give someone another chance or when to walk away with wisdom and peace.

 

Visit Dr. Cloud’s Webiste: https://www.drcloud.com/ 

Learn More About Boundaries: https://shorturl.at/a10MY 

Purchase Your Copy of Trust: https://shorturl.at/8a6QM 

Looking for Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Counsel & Care?: https://christiancareconnect.com/

In today&rsquo;s episode, Dr. Henry Cloud, clinical psychologist and bestselling author joins Dr. Zach for a deep dive into one of the most important dynamics in every relationship: trust. Dr. Cloud blends Scripture, neuroscience, and decades of clinical experience to explain how trust can be built, broken, and restored. He breaks down the core ingredients that make a person trustworthy, the signs that someone may be unsafe, and the process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. Dr. Cloud also addresses how to set healthy boundaries without shutting people out, why trust is both emotional and spiritual, and how to discern when to give someone another chance or when to walk away with wisdom and peace.
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Visit Dr. Cloud&rsquo;s Webiste: <a href="https://www.drcloud.com/" data-outlook-id="107bb005-a78a-48aa-8645-7bf6ffb4b3bb" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="21">https://www.drcloud.com/</a>&nbsp;
Learn More About Boundaries: <a href="https://shorturl.at/a10MY" data-outlook-id="d3a56fbc-81de-4519-aa5e-c3834c9f74fe" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="22">https://shorturl.at/a10MY</a>&nbsp;
Purchase Your Copy of Trust: <a href="https://shorturl.at/8a6QM" data-outlook-id="4ce8073d-036f-4960-a041-ed19a5342d32" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="23">https://shorturl.at/8a6QM</a>&nbsp;
Looking for Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Counsel &amp; Care?: <a href="https://christiancareconnect.com/" data-outlook-id="3d8d271a-118f-4731-9471-e65f90f9000e" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="24">https://christiancareconnect.com/</a>

TRUST: When to Give it, When to Withhold it, How to Earn it, & How to Fix it with Dr. Henry Cloud, Ep. 279

In today’s episode, Ken Harrison, author, speaker, CEO of WaterStone, and Chairman of Promise Keepers, joins Dr. Zach to cast a compelling vision for biblical manhood. In a generation confused about masculinity, Ken calls men back to strength, responsibility, humility, and mission. This episode is a rallying cry for men who want to live with clarity and conviction. Ken expands on the idea that men are called to be “servant kings” which are leaders who protect, serve, and sacrifice like Christ. He discusses the crisis of masculinity and fatherlessness in today’s culture, how men can lead with integrity without drifting into authoritarianism, the necessity of friendships and accountability, and the spiritual disciplines that keep a man grounded in his God-given identity and purpose.

 

Visit Ken’s Website: https://kenrharrison.com/ 

Find Out More About WaterStone: https://waterstone.org/about/ 

Find Out More About Promise Keepers: https://promisekeepers.org/ 

Looking for Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Counsel & Care?: https://christiancareconnect.com/  

In today&rsquo;s episode, Ken Harrison, author, speaker, CEO of WaterStone, and Chairman of Promise Keepers, joins Dr. Zach to cast a compelling vision for biblical manhood. In a generation confused about masculinity, Ken calls men back to strength, responsibility, humility, and mission. This episode is a rallying cry for men who want to live with clarity and conviction. Ken expands on the idea that men are called to be &ldquo;servant kings&rdquo; which are leaders who protect, serve, and sacrifice like Christ. He discusses the crisis of masculinity and fatherlessness in today&rsquo;s culture, how men can lead with integrity without drifting into authoritarianism, the necessity of friendships and accountability, and the spiritual disciplines that keep a man grounded in his God-given identity and purpose.
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Visit Ken&rsquo;s Website: <a href="https://kenrharrison.com/" data-outlook-id="059ab743-8705-430c-9c44-e46cabc0d432" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="17" data-ogsc="">https://kenrharrison.com/</a>&nbsp;
Find Out More About WaterStone: <a href="https://waterstone.org/about/" data-outlook-id="85c25278-48b6-4026-8634-fa6495999643" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="18">https://waterstone.org/about/</a>&nbsp;
Find Out More About Promise Keepers: <a href="https://promisekeepers.org/" data-outlook-id="584c3794-1c29-4a41-9998-fcfce6e99aeb" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="19">https://promisekeepers.org/</a>&nbsp;
Looking for Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Counsel &amp; Care?: <a href="https://christiancareconnect.com/" data-outlook-id="4920daa3-aea3-4773-b214-566cbd44c7ea" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="20">https://christiancareconnect.com/</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;

Servant Kings & Daring Faith: Masculinity, Mission, & Moving Men Toward Purpose with Ken Harrison, Ep. 278

In today’s episode, Victor Marx, a high-risk humanitarian, trauma survivor, founder of All Things Possible Ministries, and candidate for Governor of Colorado brings a riveting message of courage for leaders and people of faith. With stories from war zones, rescue missions, and spiritual battlefields, Victor challenges listeners to confront darkness with boldness, compassion, and unwavering faith. He explores what real courage looks like in a fear-driven world, sharing frontline stories that reveal both the brutality of evil and the necessity of godly strength. Victor vulnerably unpacks his own testimony and how men can cultivate a warrior spirit without losing tenderness, how to build spiritual resilience, and why cultivating a fierce, Scripture-anchored faith is essential for navigating the increasingly dangerous cultural moments we find ourselves in.

 

Victor for Governor: https://www.victor2026.com/ 

All Things Possible Ministry: https://victormarx.com/ 

Follow Victor on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/victormarx/?hl=en 

Pick Up Your Copy of The Dangerous Gentleman: https://shorturl.at/exFXZ 

Looking for Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Counsel & Care?: https://christiancareconnect.com/ 

In today&rsquo;s episode, Victor Marx, a high-risk humanitarian, trauma survivor, founder of All Things Possible Ministries, and candidate for Governor of Colorado brings a riveting message of courage for leaders and people of faith. With stories from war zones, rescue missions, and spiritual battlefields, Victor challenges listeners to confront darkness with boldness, compassion, and unwavering faith. He explores what real courage looks like in a fear-driven world, sharing frontline stories that reveal both the brutality of evil and the necessity of godly strength. Victor vulnerably unpacks his own testimony and how men can cultivate a warrior spirit without losing tenderness, how to build spiritual resilience, and why cultivating a fierce, Scripture-anchored faith is essential for navigating the increasingly dangerous cultural moments we find ourselves in.
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Victor for Governor: <a href="https://www.victor2026.com/" data-outlook-id="43e4b3dc-4f6a-4664-939c-4b5ffcd11570" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="12" data-ogsc="">https://www.victor2026.com/</a>&nbsp;
All Things Possible Ministry: <a href="https://victormarx.com/" data-outlook-id="c03a52c2-edd3-46fa-8cd3-2bb4e17e8349" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="13">https://victormarx.com/</a>&nbsp;
Follow Victor on Social Media: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/victormarx/?hl=en" data-outlook-id="c4ef382d-0976-4ab8-b328-8a70755e6b41" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="14" data-ogsc="">https://www.instagram.com/victormarx/?hl=en</a>&nbsp;
Pick Up Your Copy of The Dangerous Gentleman: <a href="https://shorturl.at/exFXZ" data-outlook-id="61175ef8-fa82-469c-96d9-55127fa88181" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="15">https://shorturl.at/exFXZ</a>&nbsp;
Looking for Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Counsel &amp; Care?: <a href="https://christiancareconnect.com/" data-outlook-id="c02205e7-468b-47e4-9783-9a2a78bb43de" data-auth="NotApplicable" data-linkindex="16">https://christiancareconnect.com/</a>&nbsp;

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