Glen Leverenz and Sarah Tafoya totally nailed the Thanksgiving chat on Morning Air, serving up a fun mix of food fails and family feels. It’s the kind of convo that makes you feel like you’re right there, laughing along with a plate of stuffing in hand.



Early Mornings vs. Snoozing ☀️😴



Sarah kicked things off with a little “thankful for Thanksgiving” shout-out: because hello, sleeping in! Morning radio means crack-of-dawn wakeups, so she’s pumped for a day when her alarm isn’t the boss of her. Glen? He gets it. Thanksgiving = cozy sleep-ins = winning.



Cranberry Confessions 🍇🤔



You either love canned cranberry jelly, or you’re wrong. 😂 Sarah reminisced about the OG canned stuff: you know, the kind that holds its shape like a Jello tower. Glen, on the other hand, isn’t much of a cranberry guy (he’s Team Stuffing), but even he can’t resist the wiggly charm of canned jelly.



And Sarah's all about post-Thanksgiving cranberry experiments: mixing in pineapple, lemon zest, or even (wait for it) horseradish. Yep, you read that right. Spicy cranberries, anyone?



Kids’ Table Memories 🧃🍪



Ah, the “kids’ table” days: where the treats were abundant, and sneaking extra cookies was basically a sport. Sarah cracked everyone up with tales of her childhood holiday shenanigans, reminding us that sometimes the kids’ table is where the real fun happens.



Now as grown-ups, the focus has shifted to steering family convos away from politics. (Pro tip: Pass the pie, not the debate topics. 🥧)



Black Friday Throwbacks 💳🛍️



They wrapped things up reminiscing about the thrill of old-school Black Friday chaos: those wild, early-morning shopping sprees that felt like a sport. But these days? Most of us are more about online deals and using that extra time to chill in our PJs. #Growth



Glen and Sarah’s chat was packed with laughs, family memories, and a hefty dose of cheer. It’s the perfect reminder that Thanksgiving isn’t just about the food (though, let’s be real, food is a big deal): it’s about slowing down, sharing stories, and finding joy in the quirky, wobbly traditions that make the day special. 🍂💛 We give God thanks for all He's given us this year!





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Glen Leverenz and Sarah Tafoya totally nailed the Thanksgiving chat on Morning Air, serving up a fun mix of food fails and family feels. It’s the kind of convo that makes you feel like you’re right there, laughing along with a plate of stuffing in hand.
 
Early Mornings vs. Snoozing ☀️😴
 
Sarah kicked things off with a little “thankful for Thanksgiving” shout-out: because hello, sleeping in! Morning radio means crack-of-dawn wakeups, so she’s pumped for a day when her alarm isn’t the boss of her. Glen? He gets it. Thanksgiving = cozy sleep-ins = winning.
 
Cranberry Confessions 🍇🤔
 
You either love canned cranberry jelly, or you’re wrong. 😂 Sarah reminisced about the OG canned stuff: you know, the kind that holds its shape like a Jello tower. Glen, on the other hand, isn’t much of a cranberry guy (he’s Team Stuffing), but even he can’t resist the wiggly charm of canned jelly.
 
And Sarah's all about post-Thanksgiving cranberry experiments: mixing in pineapple, lemon zest, or even (wait for it) horseradish. Yep, you read that right. Spicy cranberries, anyone?
 
Kids’ Table Memories 🧃🍪
 
Ah, the “kids’ table” days: where the treats were abundant, and sneaking extra cookies was basically a sport. Sarah cracked everyone up with tales of her childhood holiday shenanigans, reminding us that sometimes the kids’ table is where the real fun happens.
 
Now as grown-ups, the focus has shifted to steering family convos away from politics. (Pro tip: Pass the pie, not the debate topics. 🥧)
 
Black Friday Throwbacks 💳🛍️
 
They wrapped things up reminiscing about the thrill of old-school Black Friday chaos: those wild, early-morning shopping sprees that felt like a sport. But these days? Most of us are more about online deals and using that extra time to chill in our PJs. #Growth
 
Glen and Sarah’s chat was packed with laughs, family memories, and a hefty dose of cheer. It’s the perfect reminder that Thanksgiving isn’t just about the food (though, let’s be real, food is a big deal): it’s about slowing down, sharing stories, and finding joy in the quirky, wobbly traditions that make the day special. 🍂💛 We give God thanks for all He's given us this year!
 
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

Turkey Talk (Morning Air)

Patrick Madrid looks at the Book of Genesis with caller May, exploring the real meaning behind God’s warning to Adam and Eve: "Eat from this tree, and you will die." Spoiler alert: there's more going on here than just a physical death! 💀



1️⃣ What Kind of Death Are We Talking About?



Patrick explains that the "death" God mentioned had two levels:



Physical Death: Before the Fall, Adam and Eve were immortal. By sinning, they introduced mortality into human existence. No, they didn’t keel over immediately, but the clock started ticking. ⏳



Spiritual Death: This is the heavy hitter. Their sin severed their intimate connection with God, like pulling the plug on a divine power source. 😢 They lost their innocence, sanctifying grace, and the ability to walk in literal communion with God in the Garden.



Think about a time when your innocence was shattered: when you learned something you weren’t ready for. That’s a kind of death, Patrick says. It hits deep. 💔



2️⃣ What About Those Closed Gates of Heaven? 🚪❌



May’s second question gets to the heart of salvation history. Why couldn’t anyone enter heaven until Jesus? Patrick lays it out:



Adam slammed the gates shut. By choosing sin, Adam lost the supernatural gifts (like sanctifying grace) that would’ve let him pass those on to humanity. No grace, no heaven. 😬



Jesus unlocked the gates. Through His death and resurrection, Jesus restored the relationship with God that Adam had broken. He’s called the "Second Adam" for a reason; Jesus fixed what the first Adam wrecked. 🙌



3️⃣ What’s the Takeaway for Us?



May nails it when she asks, "Do we die a little every time we sin?" Patrick’s answer: "Yes, exactly!" Sin separates us from God, chipping away at our relationship with Him. But through confession and grace, we can rebuild what sin damages. ✝️❤️



Listening to this exchange feels like a masterclass in understanding Genesis and the human condition. Patrick makes it clear: the Bible isn’t just a collection of old stories: it’s the roadmap to understanding who we are, why we’re here, and how we can get back to walking with God again. 🌟





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Patrick Madrid looks at the Book of Genesis with caller May, exploring the real meaning behind God’s warning to Adam and Eve: "Eat from this tree, and you will die." Spoiler alert: there's more going on here than just a physical death! 💀
 
1️⃣ What Kind of Death Are We Talking About?
 
Patrick explains that the "death" God mentioned had two levels:
 
Physical Death: Before the Fall, Adam and Eve were immortal. By sinning, they introduced mortality into human existence. No, they didn’t keel over immediately, but the clock started ticking. ⏳
 
Spiritual Death: This is the heavy hitter. Their sin severed their intimate connection with God, like pulling the plug on a divine power source. 😢 They lost their innocence, sanctifying grace, and the ability to walk in literal communion with God in the Garden.
 
Think about a time when your innocence was shattered: when you learned something you weren’t ready for. That’s a kind of death, Patrick says. It hits deep. 💔
 
2️⃣ What About Those Closed Gates of Heaven? 🚪❌
 
May’s second question gets to the heart of salvation history. Why couldn’t anyone enter heaven until Jesus? Patrick lays it out:
 
Adam slammed the gates shut. By choosing sin, Adam lost the supernatural gifts (like sanctifying grace) that would’ve let him pass those on to humanity. No grace, no heaven. 😬
 
Jesus unlocked the gates. Through His death and resurrection, Jesus restored the relationship with God that Adam had broken. He’s called the "Second Adam" for a reason; Jesus fixed what the first Adam wrecked. 🙌
 
3️⃣ What’s the Takeaway for Us?
 
May nails it when she asks, "Do we die a little every time we sin?" Patrick’s answer: "Yes, exactly!" Sin separates us from God, chipping away at our relationship with Him. But through confession and grace, we can rebuild what sin damages. ✝️❤️
 
Listening to this exchange feels like a masterclass in understanding Genesis and the human condition. Patrick makes it clear: the Bible isn’t just a collection of old stories: it’s the roadmap to understanding who we are, why we’re here, and how we can get back to walking with God again. 🌟
 
 
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Adam and Eve Didn’t Drop Dead?! What Really Happened in Eden 🌳🍎(The Patrick Madrid Show)

This podcast episode of Family Rosary Across America with Fr. Rocky and Maggie was one of those heartwarming, tear-jerking nights that makes you remember why we pray together. Here are the highlights:



🙏 The Youngest Prayer Warrior


Eight-year-old Henry from Park Ridge, Illinois, stole the show early on. His prayer intention was for his three-month-old cousin in Utah who just had open-heart surgery. 😢 Can you imagine? This kiddo is already a little saint-in-the-making. Fr. Rocky promised prayers and encouraged Henry to call back with updates. (We’re rooting for you, little cousin!)



💔 Heartbreak in Florida


Blanche from Delray Beach called in with tragic news. Three deputies in Palm Beach County were struck during traffic enforcement, resulting in two deaths and one in critical condition. Lord have mercy on their souls and protect all those who serve. 🙏



🙌 A Little Miracle in Brooklyn


Ella from Brooklyn brought the praise report we all needed! Yesterday, she asked for prayers for her coworker’s grandson, two-and-a-half-year-old Giuseppe, who hadn’t spoken yet. Her prayer? That he’d say “Mama” and “Dada” by Christmas. 🎄 Guess what? This morning, Giuseppe said “Mama”! 🎉 Ella’s joy was contagious, reminding us that even small victories are signs of God’s love. 💕




Whether it’s an innocent child, a grieving heart, or a moment of joy, God’s grace is all around us. 🌟



Keep those intentions coming. You never know when God’s going to surprise you!







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This podcast episode of Family Rosary Across America with Fr. Rocky and Maggie was one of those heartwarming, tear-jerking nights that makes you remember why we pray together. Here are the highlights:
 
🙏 The Youngest Prayer Warrior
 Eight-year-old Henry from Park Ridge, Illinois, stole the show early on. His prayer intention was for his three-month-old cousin in Utah who just had open-heart surgery. 😢 Can you imagine? This kiddo is already a little saint-in-the-making. Fr. Rocky promised prayers and encouraged Henry to call back with updates. (We’re rooting for you, little cousin!)
 
💔 Heartbreak in Florida
 Blanche from Delray Beach called in with tragic news. Three deputies in Palm Beach County were struck during traffic enforcement, resulting in two deaths and one in critical condition. Lord have mercy on their souls and protect all those who serve. 🙏
 
🙌 A Little Miracle in Brooklyn
 Ella from Brooklyn brought the praise report we all needed! Yesterday, she asked for prayers for her coworker’s grandson, two-and-a-half-year-old Giuseppe, who hadn’t spoken yet. Her prayer? That he’d say “Mama” and “Dada” by Christmas. 🎄 Guess what? This morning, Giuseppe said “Mama”! 🎉 Ella’s joy was contagious, reminding us that even small victories are signs of God’s love. 💕
 
 Whether it’s an innocent child, a grieving heart, or a moment of joy, God’s grace is all around us. 🌟
 
Keep those intentions coming. You never know when God’s going to surprise you!
 
 
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

Mama, Miracles, and Mercy (Family Rosary Across America)

Timmerie and Michael Gasparro explore a topic that hits home during the season: loving family members who may not follow Catholic teachings, without compromising your faith. The holidays can bring all the feels: 🎉 joy, nostalgia, awkwardness, and sometimes major family drama. But how do we handle those moments with grace?



Catch the whole hour here!



🎁 The Setup:



Timmerie starts it off by acknowledging that the holidays are a time for lights, generosity, and family… but also a minefield of tension. Think: judgment, unresolved debates, and that one uncle’s political hot takes.



Oh, and don’t forget the moral dilemmas: How do you love and welcome family living in “alternative lifestyles” while staying rooted in Catholic truth? (There's that inner conflict: "Am I endorsing this if I don’t say something?")



🍽 The Model: Jesus at the Table



Michael reminds us how Jesus set the ultimate example: He ate with sinners and tax collectors, shocking society. His approach? Radical love for the person without compromising the truth. It's about seeing the God-given dignity in everyone, even when their choices don’t align with Church teaching.



🏡 Key Takeaways for the Christmas Season:



Welcome Without Approval:



Inviting someone into your home doesn’t mean endorsing their choices. Timmerie shares a personal example of growing up in a home where everyone was welcome, including family in same-sex relationships. Yet it was clear their lifestyle wasn’t approved.



Kids can learn this balance, too! Loving others doesn’t have to mean moral confusion.



True Compassion vs. Fearful Compassion:



Father Jacques Philippe's wisdom: True compassion trusts that God loves your loved ones more than you do. Acting out of fear: approving harmful choices just to avoid conflict, ends up causing more harm. 🙏 Trust in God’s plan!



Be a Witness of Love and Joy:



Sometimes, the most powerful witness isn’t what you say, but how you live. Create a home full of peace, generosity, and hospitality. Let your actions reflect Christ’s love. 🌟



Know When to Speak and When to Wait:



Not every moment is the right moment for a “come-to-Jesus” talk. Pray for the Holy Spirit to guide you on when to speak truth, or when just showing love is enough for now. Patience is key.



Protect Young Hearts Prudently:



When kids are involved, discernment is extra important. If a family member’s behavior crosses respectful boundaries, it’s okay to set limits to protect your children while still showing love to all.



❤️ The Bigger Picture: Delight in Others



Michael emphasizes the power of delighting in others: not in their choices, but in their God-given goodness. People are transformed by love, not by condemnation. As Timmerie says, being loved and welcomed can open hearts in ways debates never will.



🌟 Final Thoughts: Love Transforms



This Christmas, be bold in love and truth. Remember, welcoming someone doesn’t mean you’re compromising your faith: it’s about reflecting God’s love. With prayer, discernment, and hospitality, your home can be a place of joy that points others to Christ. 🎄✨



PSA: Prepare yourself for that awkward family moment with prayer… and maybe pie. Always pie. 🥧

Timmerie and Michael Gasparro explore a topic that hits home during the season: loving family members who may not follow Catholic teachings, without compromising your faith. The holidays can bring all the feels: 🎉 joy, nostalgia, awkwardness, and sometimes major family drama. But how do we handle those moments with grace?
 
Catch the <a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/11/loving-family-in-alternative-lifestyles/">whole hour here</a>!
 
🎁 The Setup:
 
Timmerie starts it off by acknowledging that the holidays are a time for lights, generosity, and family… but also a minefield of tension. Think: judgment, unresolved debates, and that one uncle’s political hot takes.
 
Oh, and don’t forget the moral dilemmas: How do you love and welcome family living in “alternative lifestyles” while staying rooted in Catholic truth? (There's that inner conflict: "Am I endorsing this if I don’t say something?")
 
🍽 The Model: Jesus at the Table
 
Michael reminds us how Jesus set the ultimate example: He ate with sinners and tax collectors, shocking society. His approach? Radical love for the person without compromising the truth. It's about seeing the God-given dignity in everyone, even when their choices don’t align with Church teaching.
 
🏡 Key Takeaways for the Christmas Season:
 
Welcome Without Approval:
 
Inviting someone into your home doesn’t mean endorsing their choices. Timmerie shares a personal example of growing up in a home where everyone was welcome, including family in same-sex relationships. Yet it was clear their lifestyle wasn’t approved.
 
Kids can learn this balance, too! Loving others doesn’t have to mean moral confusion.
 
True Compassion vs. Fearful Compassion:
 
Father Jacques Philippe's wisdom: True compassion trusts that God loves your loved ones more than you do. Acting out of fear: approving harmful choices just to avoid conflict, ends up causing more harm. 🙏 Trust in God’s plan!
 
Be a Witness of Love and Joy:
 
Sometimes, the most powerful witness isn’t what you say, but how you live. Create a home full of peace, generosity, and hospitality. Let your actions reflect Christ’s love. 🌟
 
Know When to Speak and When to Wait:
 
Not every moment is the right moment for a “come-to-Jesus” talk. Pray for the Holy Spirit to guide you on when to speak truth, or when just showing love is enough for now. Patience is key.
 
Protect Young Hearts Prudently:
 
When kids are involved, discernment is extra important. If a family member’s behavior crosses respectful boundaries, it’s okay to set limits to protect your children while still showing love to all.
 
❤️ The Bigger Picture: Delight in Others
 
Michael emphasizes the power of delighting in others: not in their choices, but in their God-given goodness. People are transformed by love, not by condemnation. As Timmerie says, being loved and welcomed can open hearts in ways debates never will.
 
🌟 Final Thoughts: Love Transforms
 
This Christmas, be bold in love and truth. Remember, welcoming someone doesn’t mean you’re compromising your faith: it’s about reflecting God’s love. With prayer, discernment, and hospitality, your home can be a place of joy that points others to Christ. 🎄✨
 
PSA: Prepare yourself for that awkward family moment with prayer… and maybe pie. Always pie. 🥧

How Should We Show God's Love to Family Members Who Disagree With Us? (Trending with Timmerie)

On The Inner Life, Patrick Conley sat down with Fr. Bobby Blood to tackle the ultimate Christian challenge: being thankful when life is rough. Fr. Blood, who’s got his hands full as a priest and spiritual director at Boylan High School in Illinois, shared how gratitude isn’t just for sunny days but is actually a spiritual superpower.



Check out the whole hour!



Gratitude = Perspective Shift 🙌



Fr. Blood talked about gratitude being a “perspective shift.” When we zoom out of our personal mess and look at life in the big picture, we see that “life is a net positive.” (File that one away; it’s gold.) Our relationship with a loving, generous God is the ultimate context for everything: good, bad, and ugly. And when we start to focus on what God gives us: love, life, and attention; it’s a game-changer.



Suffering Isn’t Pointless 



Mike from Indiana called in to remind us that even suffering can have value, when it’s united with Christ. Jesus saved us from “useless suffering” by giving our pain meaning. What does that mean? Well, when we offer our struggles to God, they become salvific (“they help save souls”). 



Fr. Blood brought up St. Cecilia and the martyrs. They saw their suffering as a chance to glorify God. For us, it might look like handling smaller sacrifices ("ugh, another work deadline") with a spirit of trust and joy, knowing God can use even that for good.



What About Teens Who Feel Alone? 👨‍🎓



Fr. Blood also mentioned the young people who’ve been through trauma or just feel totally disconnected. Teens can struggle to be grateful when they’re drowning in “big feelings.” His advice? Create situations where they can honestly share their struggles without fear of judgment. When they feel heard and loved, that’s when gratitude can start to grow, like a little mustard seed 🌱.



Instead of giving them the ol’ “time heals all wounds” cliché, Fr. Blood encourages parents and mentors to lean in and let kids feel those emotions. Pain that’s stuffed down only gets worse sometimes. But when kids are allowed to be vulnerable, they eventually find rest: and with it, thankfulness.



Takeaways for Us 📝



Gratitude is a choice: It’s about seeing life through the lens of God’s generosity.



Offer your suffering: It’s not useless! Unite it with Jesus, and it becomes a way to grow closer to Him.



Be a safe place: For young people especially, being heard is the first step toward healing and gratitude.



Gratitude isn’t about slapping a smile on tough times: it’s about anchoring ourselves in the truth that God’s love makes life worth living. Even on bad days, “life is a net positive.” So, pass the turkey and maybe a little extra patience this Thanksgiving. 🦃🙏





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On The Inner Life, Patrick Conley sat down with Fr. Bobby Blood to tackle the ultimate Christian challenge: being thankful when life is rough. Fr. Blood, who’s got his hands full as a priest and spiritual director at Boylan High School in Illinois, shared how gratitude isn’t just for sunny days but is actually a spiritual superpower.
 
Check out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/11/thankfulness-the-inner-life-november-22-2024/">the whole hour</a>!
 
Gratitude = Perspective Shift 🙌
 
Fr. Blood talked about gratitude being a “perspective shift.” When we zoom out of our personal mess and look at life in the big picture, we see that “life is a net positive.” (File that one away; it’s gold.) Our relationship with a loving, generous God is the ultimate context for everything: good, bad, and ugly. And when we start to focus on what God gives us: love, life, and attention; it’s a game-changer.
 
Suffering Isn’t Pointless 
 
Mike from Indiana called in to remind us that even suffering can have value, when it’s united with Christ. Jesus saved us from “useless suffering” by giving our pain meaning. What does that mean? Well, when we offer our struggles to God, they become salvific (“they help save souls”). 
 
Fr. Blood brought up St. Cecilia and the martyrs. They saw their suffering as a chance to glorify God. For us, it might look like handling smaller sacrifices ("ugh, another work deadline") with a spirit of trust and joy, knowing God can use even that for good.
 
What About Teens Who Feel Alone? 👨‍🎓
 
Fr. Blood also mentioned the young people who’ve been through trauma or just feel totally disconnected. Teens can struggle to be grateful when they’re drowning in “big feelings.” His advice? Create situations where they can honestly share their struggles without fear of judgment. When they feel heard and loved, that’s when gratitude can start to grow, like a little mustard seed 🌱.
 
Instead of giving them the ol’ “time heals all wounds” cliché, Fr. Blood encourages parents and mentors to lean in and let kids feel those emotions. Pain that’s stuffed down only gets worse sometimes. But when kids are allowed to be vulnerable, they eventually find rest: and with it, thankfulness.
 
Takeaways for Us 📝
 
Gratitude is a choice: It’s about seeing life through the lens of God’s generosity.
 
Offer your suffering: It’s not useless! Unite it with Jesus, and it becomes a way to grow closer to Him.
 
Be a safe place: For young people especially, being heard is the first step toward healing and gratitude.
 
Gratitude isn’t about slapping a smile on tough times: it’s about anchoring ourselves in the truth that God’s love makes life worth living. Even on bad days, “life is a net positive.” So, pass the turkey and maybe a little extra patience this Thanksgiving. 🦃🙏
 
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

How Can We Be Thankful for Our Suffering? (The Inner Life with Patrick Conley)

Doug Hinderer tackled a biggie: What to do if your spouse is selfish. 😬 Catch the whole hour here!



Why the Selfishness, Though? 🤔



Before you start fuming, Doug suggests realizing that selfishness has roots:



Bad modeling: Maybe they grew up watching selfish parents.



Childhood wounds: Lack of love or security might’ve left scars.



Insecurity or superiority complex: “I’m the only one who gets it, so back off.”



Scarcity mindset: They’re hoarding the last slice of life’s proverbial pizza.



Personality issues: Things like narcissism or other disorders could play a role.



Good news? You don’t need a PhD in psychology to work on this. (Phew.)



Step 1: Empathy ≠ Enabling ❤️



Doug explains: Seek to understand.



Ask curious, empathetic questions: “Help me understand why you think this is okay…” 🤔



Don’t just call them out. Communicate how their actions affect you.



Bonus tip: Be patient. Change takes time. (Breathe deeply...very deeply.)



Step 2: Speak Their Language, Without Starting WWIII 🕊️



Here’s how to address selfish behavior without causing Vesuvius-style eruptions:



Use “I” statements:“I feel unimportant when you make plans without me.”



Focus on specific actions: Keep it about what happened today, not about that thing from 2007.



Avoid labels: Don’t say, “You’re so selfish!” Instead, target the action, not the person.



Step 3: The Big “B” Word: Boundaries 🚧



Sometimes, ya gotta draw a line in the sand. Doug suggests:



Setting clear expectations for acceptable behavior.



Communicating consequences for crossing those lines: kindly but firmly. 



Staying calm, confident, and grounded in what you’re willing to tolerate.



Pro Tip: Don’t Go All Psychologist on Them 🛋️



Doug warns against armchair diagnosing. Don’t throw out phrases like, “This is because of your mommy issues!” Stick to the behavior, not why you think it’s happening. No one wants a lecture: they want solutions.



Prayer Power 🙏



Doug wrapped the episode with a heartfelt Memorare to our Blessed Mother. 💐 He reminded us to lean on grace for strength, and maybe a little divine intervention when things get tough.







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Doug Hinderer tackled a biggie: What to do if your spouse is selfish. 😬 Catch the whole hour <a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/11/selfishness-in-marriage/">here</a>!
 
Why the Selfishness, Though? 🤔
 
Before you start fuming, Doug suggests realizing that selfishness has roots:
 
Bad modeling: Maybe they grew up watching selfish parents.
 
Childhood wounds: Lack of love or security might’ve left scars.
 
Insecurity or superiority complex: “I’m the only one who gets it, so back off.”
 
Scarcity mindset: They’re hoarding the last slice of life’s proverbial pizza.
 
Personality issues: Things like narcissism or other disorders could play a role.
 
Good news? You don’t need a PhD in psychology to work on this. (Phew.)
 
Step 1: Empathy ≠ Enabling ❤️
 
Doug explains: Seek to understand.
 
Ask curious, empathetic questions: “Help me understand why you think this is okay…” 🤔
 
Don’t just call them out. Communicate how their actions affect you.
 
Bonus tip: Be patient. Change takes time. (Breathe deeply...very deeply.)
 
Step 2: Speak Their Language, Without Starting WWIII 🕊️
 
Here’s how to address selfish behavior without causing Vesuvius-style eruptions:
 
Use “I” statements: “I feel unimportant when you make plans without me.”
 
Focus on specific actions: Keep it about what happened today, not about that thing from 2007.
 
Avoid labels: Don’t say, “You’re so selfish!” Instead, target the action, not the person.
 
Step 3: The Big “B” Word: Boundaries 🚧
 
Sometimes, ya gotta draw a line in the sand. Doug suggests:
 
Setting clear expectations for acceptable behavior.
 
Communicating consequences for crossing those lines: kindly but firmly. 
 
Staying calm, confident, and grounded in what you’re willing to tolerate.
 
Pro Tip: Don’t Go All Psychologist on Them 🛋️
 
Doug warns against armchair diagnosing. Don’t throw out phrases like, “This is because of your mommy issues!” Stick to the behavior, not why you think it’s happening. No one wants a lecture: they want solutions.
 
Prayer Power 🙏
 
Doug wrapped the episode with a heartfelt Memorare to our Blessed Mother. 💐 He reminded us to lean on grace for strength, and maybe a little divine intervention when things get tough.
 
 
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

Navigating Marriage with a Selfish Spouse (Marriage Unhindered)

Okay, let’s cut straight to it: Are we supposed to freak out about the Book of Revelation and Doomsday? NOPE. Here’s Fr. Simon’s take:



📖 Revelation Is NOT Your Doomsday Calendar



We start reading Revelation toward the end of the liturgical year, which makes sense: it’s about ends. Father quickly squashes the idea that we should grab a calculator to figure out when the apocalypse is coming. Trust God, not YouTube conspiracy theories. Jesus said, “I’ve told you these things so that when they happen, you’ll trust.” Not panic.



🚫 No Exact Dates in Scripture (Except for Two!)



Fr. Simon shares this: Only two times in history did heaven give us an exact date:



The Resurrection (3 days, as Jesus promised).



Fatima’s Miracle of the Sun (October 13, 1917).



Other than that? Nope. Nada. Even the legit mystics who try to pin down dates usually get it wrong. (Fr. Simon hilariously recalls a mystic predicting her death at 52…she lived to 72. Math is hard. 😜)





🦗 Giant Grasshoppers or…Metal Munching Moon Mice?



Revelation is full of wild imagery: think giant locusts with steel teeth. The point isn’t to take it literally but to realize: “When it happens, you’ll understand.” So, stop trying to map it all out now.





🕊️ St. Paul’s Advice? Relax.



St. Paul (2 Thessalonians 2) gave us clear advice: “Don’t be alarmed.” There’s no secret letter, no hidden prophecy saying it’s all going down next Thursday. God’s not playing games with us. Fr. Simon echoes this: Keep calm, stay faithful, and stop forwarding those apocalypse rumors in the group chat. 🙄





Want to Understand Revelation? Think Mass.



The best take on Revelation, according to Fr. Simon? Scott Hahn’s The Lamb’s Supper. The Book of Revelation isn’t about calculating "the end." It’s about the heavenly liturgy: the eternal wedding banquet between Christ (the Bridegroom) and His Church (the Bride). It’s not scary; it’s beautiful.



Fun fact: Apocalypse literally means “unveiling,” like lifting the bride’s veil. So yeah, Revelation is less about explosions and more about eternal love. 💍



🌍 What Does It All Mean for Us?



Don’t Obsess Over Timetables.



If someone says, “2028 is the year of tribulation!” ... They don’t know.



It’s About Trust.


When things happen... good or bad, God wants us to say, “Ah, that’s what You meant.” Revelation is a guide to deepen our faith, not to fuel fear.



It’s Also About Now.



Father explains that Revelation has layers:



Your personal spiritual journey.



The Church’s mission on earth.



The eventual end of time.



Each layer speaks to us here and now. Ask God: "What are You revealing to me today?"



🕊️ Final Word from Father Simon:



Take a deep breath. God’s got this. When He decides it’s time to wrap up the story, we’ll know. Until then? Live faithfully, trust deeply, and maybe read The Lamb’s Supper instead of panicking about steel-toothed locusts. 🦗😅



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Okay, let’s cut straight to it: Are we supposed to freak out about the Book of Revelation and Doomsday? NOPE. Here’s Fr. Simon’s take:
 
📖 Revelation Is NOT Your Doomsday Calendar
 
We start reading Revelation toward the end of the liturgical year, which makes sense: it’s about ends. Father quickly squashes the idea that we should grab a calculator to figure out when the apocalypse is coming. Trust God, not YouTube conspiracy theories. Jesus said, “I’ve told you these things so that when they happen, you’ll trust.” Not panic.
 
🚫 No Exact Dates in Scripture (Except for Two!)
 
Fr. Simon shares this: Only two times in history did heaven give us an exact date:
 
The Resurrection (3 days, as Jesus promised).
 
Fatima’s Miracle of the Sun (October 13, 1917).
 
Other than that? Nope. Nada. Even the legit mystics who try to pin down dates usually get it wrong. (Fr. Simon hilariously recalls a mystic predicting her death at 52…she lived to 72. Math is hard. 😜)
 
 
🦗 Giant Grasshoppers or…Metal Munching Moon Mice?
 
Revelation is full of wild imagery: think giant locusts with steel teeth. The point isn’t to take it literally but to realize: “When it happens, you’ll understand.” So, stop trying to map it all out now.
 
 
🕊️ St. Paul’s Advice? Relax.
 
St. Paul (2 Thessalonians 2) gave us clear advice: “Don’t be alarmed.” There’s no secret letter, no hidden prophecy saying it’s all going down next Thursday. God’s not playing games with us. Fr. Simon echoes this: Keep calm, stay faithful, and stop forwarding those apocalypse rumors in the group chat. 🙄
 
 
Want to Understand Revelation? Think Mass.
 
The best take on Revelation, according to Fr. Simon? Scott Hahn’s The Lamb’s Supper. The Book of Revelation isn’t about calculating "the end." It’s about the heavenly liturgy: the eternal wedding banquet between Christ (the Bridegroom) and His Church (the Bride). It’s not scary; it’s beautiful.
 
Fun fact: Apocalypse literally means “unveiling,” like lifting the bride’s veil. So yeah, Revelation is less about explosions and more about eternal love. 💍
 
🌍 What Does It All Mean for Us?
 
Don’t Obsess Over Timetables.
 
If someone says, “2028 is the year of tribulation!” ... They don’t know.
 
It’s About Trust.
 When things happen... good or bad, God wants us to say, “Ah, that’s what You meant.” Revelation is a guide to deepen our faith, not to fuel fear.
 
It’s Also About Now.
 
Father explains that Revelation has layers:
 
Your personal spiritual journey.
 
The Church’s mission on earth.
 
The eventual end of time.
 
Each layer speaks to us here and now. Ask God: "What are You revealing to me today?"
 
🕊️ Final Word from Father Simon:
 
Take a deep breath. God’s got this. When He decides it’s time to wrap up the story, we’ll know. Until then? Live faithfully, trust deeply, and maybe read The Lamb’s Supper instead of panicking about steel-toothed locusts. 🦗😅
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

"Should I Be Concerned About Doomsday?": The Real Facts About Revelation (Father Simon Says)

🌟 Brooke’s Story: Finding Grace in the Chaos



Brooke, who adopted her daughter Carolina from Poland, gets real about the challenges of bringing her 14-year-old to Mass. Carolina, who has autism, loves the Eucharist but sometimes struggles with sensory overload, outbursts, and stimming. Brooke shared a viral post that resonated with countless parents, confessing how Mass can feel like a battle some days. Yet, despite the stares and misunderstandings, Brooke’s message is one of hope and perseverance. Catch the entire hour here!



"Anything worthwhile takes work. We refuse to settle for mediocrity. We trust that God uses everything to forge us into saints."



Her advice is this: When it feels impossible, “break open the roof and carry your child to Jesus.”



Kelly’s Ministry: Creating Space for All



Kelly Mantoan, founder of Accepting the Gift, speaks to the broader challenges for families with children who may autism or severe physical disabilities. Her ministry is all about bridging the gap between families and parishes, making sure that every child can access the sacraments. 💒 That's what matters! 



The Struggles: Can you imagine what some parents have to go through? Accessibility, misunderstanding, and the exhausting logistics of just getting through the church doors. It can be so overwhelming! 



The Vision: Normalizing the presence of all God’s children in the pews because the Body of Christ isn’t whole without them.



How Can Parishes Do Better?



The group brainstormed practical ways churches can step up:



Adaptive catechesis for sacramental prep 🕊



Cry rooms and sensory-friendly spaces 🎧



Trained greeters and catechists for families with special needs 



Programs like Oakland Diocese's SPRED, which brings together families of all abilities for joyful Mass experiences.



🌍 Why This Matters



The stakes are high. Families often feel judged or unwelcome and stop attending Mass altogether. We cannot have that as a Church. Brooke and Kelly both stress that creating a culture of welcome isn’t just about programs: it’s about the heart of the parish community. We all have a role to play in building the welcoming Church Christ calls us to be.



💡 Takeaway for the Rest of Us



Don’t judge the outburst in the pew next to you: offer a smile of encouragement instead. 😊



Advocate for adaptive programs in your parish if they don’t exist yet.



So, next time you’re at Mass, look around. That family you think is “too loud” or “too distracting”? They might just be the holiest ones in the room. 





The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out here.

🌟 Brooke’s Story: Finding Grace in the Chaos
 
Brooke, who adopted her daughter Carolina from Poland, gets real about the challenges of bringing her 14-year-old to Mass. Carolina, who has autism, loves the Eucharist but sometimes struggles with sensory overload, outbursts, and stimming. Brooke shared a viral post that resonated with countless parents, confessing how Mass can feel like a battle some days. Yet, despite the stares and misunderstandings, Brooke’s message is one of hope and perseverance. Catch the entire hour <a href="https://relevantradio.com/2024/11/pastoral-care-for-kids-with-special-needs/">here</a>!
 
<blockquote>
"Anything worthwhile takes work. We refuse to settle for mediocrity. We trust that God uses everything to forge us into saints."
 
</blockquote>
Her advice is this: When it feels impossible, “break open the roof and carry your child to Jesus.” 
 
<hr>
Kelly’s Ministry: Creating Space for All
 
Kelly Mantoan, founder of <a href="https://www.acceptingthegift.org">Accepting the Gift</a>, speaks to the broader challenges for families with children who may autism or severe physical disabilities. Her ministry is all about bridging the gap between families and parishes, making sure that every child can access the sacraments. 💒 That's what matters! 
 
The Struggles: Can you imagine what some parents have to go through? Accessibility, misunderstanding, and the exhausting logistics of just getting through the church doors. It can be so overwhelming! 
 
The Vision: Normalizing the presence of all God’s children in the pews because the Body of Christ isn’t whole without them.
 
<hr>
How Can Parishes Do Better?
 
The group brainstormed practical ways churches can step up:
 
Adaptive catechesis for sacramental prep 🕊
 
Cry rooms and sensory-friendly spaces 🎧
 
Trained greeters and catechists for families with special needs 
 
Programs like <a href="https://oakdiocese.org/spred/">Oakland Diocese's SPRED</a>, which brings together families of all abilities for joyful Mass experiences.
 
<hr>
🌍 Why This Matters
 
The stakes are high. Families often feel judged or unwelcome and stop attending Mass altogether. We cannot have that as a Church. Brooke and Kelly both stress that creating a culture of welcome isn’t just about programs: it’s about the heart of the parish community. We all have a role to play in building the welcoming Church Christ calls us to be.
 
<hr>
💡 Takeaway for the Rest of Us
 
Don’t judge the outburst in the pew next to you: offer a smile of encouragement instead. 😊
 
Advocate for adaptive programs in your parish if they don’t exist yet.
 
So, next time you’re at Mass, look around. That family you think is “too loud” or “too distracting”? They might just be the holiest ones in the room. 
 
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

"Is There a Place for My Child with Special Needs at Mass? (The Drew Mariani Show)

France. 1850. Twenty-seven old Louis Martin is studying to be a watchmaker but secretly wants to be a monk. Meanwhile, 19-year-old Zélie Guerin dreams of becoming a religious sister. These two young people are ready to forsake the world for lifelong religious vows, but God just might have other vows in mind for them! 



Catch more of the podcast here!

France. 1850. Twenty-seven old Louis Martin is studying to be a watchmaker but secretly wants to be a monk. Meanwhile, 19-year-old Zélie Guerin dreams of becoming a religious sister. These two young people are ready to forsake the world for lifelong religious vows, but God just might have other vows in mind for them! 
 
Catch more of the podcast <a href="https://www.themerrybeggars.com/shows/the-saints">here</a>!

St. Louis and Zélie Episode One (The Saints: Adventures in Faith and Courage)

Do you struggle with dryness in prayer? Perhaps you get frustrated with yourself because you feel like no matter how hard you try, you can't connect closer to God.



Patrick Conley chats with Fr. Bobby Blood about this. You'll be encouraged by his advice! 



Pray Through the Drought 🌵: Fr. Bobby reminds us that sometimes prayer just feels dry. But even in those seasons, we pray because God deserves our love and devotion, whether we’re feeling it or not. He says God delights in our efforts, even when they’re not “Instagram-perfect.”



Scriptures as Soul Fuel 📖: Fr. Bobby’s advice? Lean on the Bible. He mentions how relatable the stories are, especially when life feels upside down. The Gospels and the Psalms, in particular, can help you say, “I feel that!” and remind us that God never leaves us hanging.



Create a Sacred Space: Caller Mary shares her trick of having a peaceful spot to pray. Fr. Bobby totally backs this, suggesting we set up a designated prayer zone: (could be as simple as a chair or a cozy corner), so that every time we’re there, we know it’s time to focus on God.



Posture Matters: Fr. Bobby suggests even our body language in prayer matters! Kneeling when you’re begging for help, or sitting in a relaxed, open way when you’re just there to listen; it all sets the tone for how we approach God.



Fr. Bobby’s bottom line? Prayer doesn’t have to be fireworks every time. Even in the simplicity, even in silence, there’s profound beauty. It’s all about showing up, being real, and creating holy habits that bring us closer to Him. 





The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out here.

Do you struggle with dryness in prayer? Perhaps you get frustrated with yourself because you feel like no matter how hard you try, you can't connect closer to God.
 
Patrick Conley chats with Fr. Bobby Blood about this. You'll be encouraged by his advice! 
 
Pray Through the Drought 🌵: Fr. Bobby reminds us that sometimes prayer just feels dry. But even in those seasons, we pray because God deserves our love and devotion, whether we’re feeling it or not. He says God delights in our efforts, even when they’re not “Instagram-perfect.”
 
Scriptures as Soul Fuel 📖: Fr. Bobby’s advice? Lean on the Bible. He mentions how relatable the stories are, especially when life feels upside down. The Gospels and the Psalms, in particular, can help you say, “I feel that!” and remind us that God never leaves us hanging.
 
Create a Sacred Space: Caller Mary shares her trick of having a peaceful spot to pray. Fr. Bobby totally backs this, suggesting we set up a designated prayer zone: (could be as simple as a chair or a cozy corner), so that every time we’re there, we know it’s time to focus on God.
 
Posture Matters: Fr. Bobby suggests even our body language in prayer matters! Kneeling when you’re begging for help, or sitting in a relaxed, open way when you’re just there to listen; it all sets the tone for how we approach God.
 
Fr. Bobby’s bottom line? Prayer doesn’t have to be fireworks every time. Even in the simplicity, even in silence, there’s profound beauty. It’s all about showing up, being real, and creating holy habits that bring us closer to Him. 
 
 
The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out <a href="https://relevantradio.com/listen/get-the-app/">here</a>.

How Can I Improve My Prayer Routine? (The Inner Life with Patrick Conley)

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