This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo" topics like sex, pleasure and non-traditional relationships into the light.

Emily and Cindra discuss:
Cindra’s journey with her sexuality
What queer sex is
What Cindra has learnt from her queer sexual experiences
Advice for those wanting to explore queer sex
Is lesbian sex just scissoring?
How to explore intimacy
Shame during sex
How to bring up difficult feelings during sex instead of pushing through them
When being lovey, cuddly and cute in your relationship does not translate to hot steamy sex
Strap ons

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Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Cindra’s Instagram: @cindrabanks

Cindra’s website: https://www.cindrabanks.com

This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo" topics like sex, pleasure and non-traditional relationships into the light.
Emily and Cindra discuss:
<ul>
<li>Cindra’s journey with her sexuality</li>
<li>What queer sex is</li>
<li>What Cindra has learnt from her queer sexual experiences</li>
<li>Advice for those wanting to explore queer sex</li>
<li>Is lesbian sex just scissoring?</li>
<li>How to explore intimacy</li>
<li>Shame during sex</li>
<li>How to bring up difficult feelings during sex instead of pushing through them</li>
<li>When being lovey, cuddly and cute in your relationship does not translate to hot steamy sex</li>
<li>Strap ons</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Cindra’s Instagram: @cindrabanks
Cindra’s website: <a href="https://www.cindrabanks.com">https://www.cindrabanks.com</a>

A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

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110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose.

In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:
What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?
The prevalence of BPD
Common BPD misconceptions
How BPD can impact romantic relationships
How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships
How BPD can impact sex
How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

SHIPS Psychology Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/

SHIPS Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/

SHIPS Training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist<a href="https://www.ahpra.gov.au/"> (AHPRA)</a>, Board Approved Supervisor<a href="https://www.ahpra.gov.au/"> (AHPRA)</a>, training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose.
In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:
<ul>
<li>What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?</li>
<li>The prevalence of BPD</li>
<li>Common BPD misconceptions</li>
<li>How BPD can impact romantic relationships</li>
<li>How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships</li>
<li>How BPD can impact sex</li>
<li>How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
SHIPS Psychology Website: <a href="https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/">https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/</a>
SHIPS Psychology Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/">https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/</a>
SHIPS Training Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/">https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/</a>

Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.

Emily and Nova discuss:
What is a cam girl
Unique requests Nova has had
What is sugaring
Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy
Misconceptions of sugaring
Misconceptions about being a sex worker

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

Nova's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en

Nova's links: https://www.novahawthorne.com/

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.
Emily and Nova discuss:
<ul>
<li>What is a cam girl</li>
<li>Unique requests Nova has had</li>
<li>What is sugaring</li>
<li>Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy</li>
<li>Misconceptions of sugaring</li>
<li>Misconceptions about being a sex worker</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
Nova's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en</a>
Nova's links: <a href="https://www.novahawthorne.com/">https://www.novahawthorne.com/</a>

141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it. 

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

DOAC episode with Paul Brunson mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QWA2icgSDpvuANneF0EKF?si=342ed0e2607744a9

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it. 
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
DOAC episode with Paul Brunson mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QWA2icgSDpvuANneF0EKF?si=342ed0e2607744a9

110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

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