This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days.

Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships.

They discuss:
The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients
What does sex therapy actually look like?
Should vulva owners orgasm through penetration?
Do men want sex more than women?
Does penis size matter?
Is sex over when a penis ejaculates?
Is an erection necessary for sex?
If a penis is erect or a vulva lubricated, does that mean that person wants to have sex?
Does no desire mean you’re broken
Can bad sex be an ick?



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Selina’s website: www.sexedwithsel.com

Selina’s Instagram: @sexwith_sel

This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days.
Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships.
They discuss:
<ul>
<li>The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients</li>
<li>What does sex therapy actually look like?</li>
<li>Should vulva owners orgasm through penetration?</li>
<li>Do men want sex more than women?</li>
<li>Does penis size matter?</li>
<li>Is sex over when a penis ejaculates?</li>
<li>Is an erection necessary for sex?</li>
<li>If a penis is erect or a vulva lubricated, does that mean that person wants to have sex?</li>
<li>Does no desire mean you’re broken</li>
<li>Can bad sex be an ick?</li>
</ul>
 
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To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Selina’s website: <a href="http://www.sexedwithsel.com">www.sexedwithsel.com</a>
Selina’s Instagram: @sexwith_sel

A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

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103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist.

Emily and Coby discussed:
What is Kink and BDSM
Development of kinks
Common practices
Difference between a kink and a fetish
How to explore kink and BDSM safely
Communication
How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore
Aftercare

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Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre, follow the link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Sexual Wellness Centre.

Coby’s website

Coby’s Instagram

This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist.
Emily and Coby discussed:
<ul>
<li>What is Kink and BDSM</li>
<li>Development of kinks</li>
<li>Common practices</li>
<li>Difference between a kink and a fetish</li>
<li>How to explore kink and BDSM safely</li>
<li>Communication</li>
<li>How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore</li>
<li>Aftercare</li>
</ul>
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To book a session with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre, follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Sexual Wellness Centre.
<a href="https://www.cobybaker.com/">Coby&rsquo;s website</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/cobybakersexology/">Coby&rsquo;s Instagram</a>

173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker

This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues.

We discuss:
What is purity culture
How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame
Why talking about sex is important
What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture

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Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

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Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

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Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/

 

This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy &amp; Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues.
We discuss:
<ul>
<li>What is purity culture</li>
<li>How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame</li>
<li>Why talking about sex is important</li>
<li>What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture</li>
</ul>
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To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
Website: <a href="https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult">www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult</a>
Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou">https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou</a>
Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/">https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/</a>
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172 How to overcome purity culture and sexual shame with Lauren Elise Rogers

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.

 

We discuss:
What is cheating
Why do people cheat?
Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem?
Can a relationship survive an affair?
How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy
Misconceptions about affairs 

YOUTUBE VIDEO

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Tarah and EJ's Website

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples&rsquo; lives through meaningful connection and support. They&rsquo;re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.
&nbsp;
We discuss:
<ul>
<li>What is cheating</li>
<li>Why do people cheat?</li>
<li>Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem?</li>
<li>Can a relationship survive an affair?</li>
<li>How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy</li>
<li>Misconceptions about affairs&nbsp;</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://youtu.be/KF8KlUFx6bk">YOUTUBE VIDEO</a>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
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<a href="https://relationshiprenovation.com/">Tarah and EJ's Website</a>

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