This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days.

Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships.

They discuss:
The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients
What does sex therapy actually look like?
Should vulva owners orgasm through penetration?
Do men want sex more than women?
Does penis size matter?
Is sex over when a penis ejaculates?
Is an erection necessary for sex?
If a penis is erect or a vulva lubricated, does that mean that person wants to have sex?
Does no desire mean you’re broken
Can bad sex be an ick?



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Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Selina’s website: www.sexedwithsel.com

Selina’s Instagram: @sexwith_sel

This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days.
Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships.
They discuss:
<ul>
<li>The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients</li>
<li>What does sex therapy actually look like?</li>
<li>Should vulva owners orgasm through penetration?</li>
<li>Do men want sex more than women?</li>
<li>Does penis size matter?</li>
<li>Is sex over when a penis ejaculates?</li>
<li>Is an erection necessary for sex?</li>
<li>If a penis is erect or a vulva lubricated, does that mean that person wants to have sex?</li>
<li>Does no desire mean you’re broken</li>
<li>Can bad sex be an ick?</li>
</ul>
 
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Selina’s website: <a href="http://www.sexedwithsel.com">www.sexedwithsel.com</a>
Selina’s Instagram: @sexwith_sel

A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

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103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book.

Emily and Dana discuss:
Dana’s experience with OCD
Paedophilic OCD
How to support somebody with OCD
BDSM
Is BDSM spiritually good for you?
Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain
Dana’s experience with UTIs

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

Dana’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/

Buy Dan’a’s book The Shift’: https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book.
Emily and Dana discuss:
<ul>
<li>Dana’s experience with OCD</li>
<li>Paedophilic OCD</li>
<li>How to support somebody with OCD</li>
<li>BDSM</li>
<li>Is BDSM spiritually good for you?</li>
<li>Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain</li>
<li>Dana’s experience with UTIs</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
Dana’s Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/">https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/</a>
Buy Dan’a’s book The Shift’: <a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005">https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005</a>

143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose.

In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:
What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?
The prevalence of BPD
Common BPD misconceptions
How BPD can impact romantic relationships
How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships
How BPD can impact sex
How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

SHIPS Psychology Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/

SHIPS Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/

SHIPS Training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist<a href="https://www.ahpra.gov.au/"> (AHPRA)</a>, Board Approved Supervisor<a href="https://www.ahpra.gov.au/"> (AHPRA)</a>, training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose.
In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:
<ul>
<li>What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?</li>
<li>The prevalence of BPD</li>
<li>Common BPD misconceptions</li>
<li>How BPD can impact romantic relationships</li>
<li>How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships</li>
<li>How BPD can impact sex</li>
<li>How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
SHIPS Psychology Website: <a href="https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/">https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/</a>
SHIPS Psychology Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/">https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/</a>
SHIPS Training Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/">https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/</a>

142 Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.

Emily and Nova discuss:
What is a cam girl
Unique requests Nova has had
What is sugaring
Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy
Misconceptions of sugaring
Misconceptions about being a sex worker

FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

Nova's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en

Nova's links: https://www.novahawthorne.com/

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.
Emily and Nova discuss:
<ul>
<li>What is a cam girl</li>
<li>Unique requests Nova has had</li>
<li>What is sugaring</li>
<li>Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy</li>
<li>Misconceptions of sugaring</li>
<li>Misconceptions about being a sex worker</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: <a href="https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/">https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/</a>
Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.
Subscribe to my Sunroom: <a href="https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic">https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic</a> (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)
Nova's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en</a>
Nova's links: <a href="https://www.novahawthorne.com/">https://www.novahawthorne.com/</a>

103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

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