This episode features Jess and Lawerence the founders of Our Secret Spot, a sex club in Sydney. 

Emily, Jess and Lawerence discuss:
How they entered the swinging lifestyle and the experiences they have had
What you can expect when you visit a sex club
Are there more couples or singles?
Why they are seeing more single women at these events
What is the typical age at a sex club?
How sex clubs can build your confidence in practising consent
Their favourite experiences in sex clubs/parties
Advice for single males wanting to attend a sex club

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Our Secret Club website: https://oursecretspot.com.au/

Our Secret Club Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oursecretspot/

VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)

This episode features Jess and Lawerence the founders of Our Secret Spot, a sex club in Sydney. 
Emily, Jess and Lawerence discuss:
<ul>
<li>How they entered the swinging lifestyle and the experiences they have had</li>
<li>What you can expect when you visit a sex club</li>
<li>Are there more couples or singles?</li>
<li>Why they are seeing more single women at these events</li>
<li>What is the typical age at a sex club?</li>
<li>How sex clubs can build your confidence in practising consent</li>
<li>Their favourite experiences in sex clubs/parties</li>
<li>Advice for single males wanting to attend a sex club</li>
</ul>
FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com
Our Secret Club website: <a href="https://oursecretspot.com.au/">https://oursecretspot.com.au/</a>
Our Secret Club Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/oursecretspot/">https://www.instagram.com/oursecretspot/</a>
VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)

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071 An introduction to sex clubs with Our Secret Spot

Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection.

From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she’s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish.

You’ll discover:
What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like
How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening
The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience
Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy
How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age

Anna Grosman is the founder of Her Confidant, Australia’s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples. 

 

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Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of <a href="https://herconfidant.com.au/contact-us/">Her Confidant</a>, shares how she built Australia&rsquo;s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection.
From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she&rsquo;s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish.
You&rsquo;ll discover:
<ul>
<li>What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like</li>
<li>How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening</li>
<li>The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience</li>
<li>Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy</li>
<li>How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age</li>
</ul>
Anna Grosman is the founder of <a href="https://herconfidant.com.au/contact-us/">Her Confidant</a>, Australia&rsquo;s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples.&nbsp;
&nbsp;
Get the <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/product-page/ultimate-sexual-wellness-bundle">Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle</a> (all my resources/ebooks!!)
Want 10% off <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/category/all-products">store products</a>? Use code thatsorgasmic10
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">Submit your anonymous question for the podcast</a>
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Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/booking">HERE</a> with Emily at <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/">The Sexual Wellness Centre</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/herconfidant.au/">Her Confidant Instagram</a>
<a href="https://herconfidant.com.au/contact-us/">Her Confidant Website</a>
<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/herconfidant/posts/">Her Confidant LinkedIn</a>

191 Why women pay for sex - the experience of hiring an escort with Anna Grosman

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in.

Today's episode explores catfishing.

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Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in.
Today's episode explores catfishing.
<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">Submit your anonymous question for the podcast</a>
&nbsp;
Get the <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/product-page/ultimate-sexual-wellness-bundle">Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle</a> (all my resources/ebooks!!)
Want 10% off <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/category/all-products">store products</a>? Use code thatsorgasmic10
Anonymous question link: <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast</a>
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190 Dickfishing - Ask a sexologist

Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem.

Key topics
Lex defines humiliation kink.
Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination.
Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play.
They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised.
Safety.
Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants.
They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner.
Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem?

 

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Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10

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Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast

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Send your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com

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Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem.
Key topics
<ul>
<li>Lex defines humiliation kink.</li>
<li>Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination.</li>
<li>Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play.</li>
<li>They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised.</li>
<li>Safety.</li>
<li>Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants.</li>
<li>They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner.</li>
<li>Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem?</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Get the <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/product-page/ultimate-sexual-wellness-bundle">Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle</a> (all my resources/ebooks!!)
Want 10% off <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/category/all-products">store products</a>? Use code thatsorgasmic10
<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">Submit your anonymous question for the podcast</a>
Anonymous question link: <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast</a>
FOLLOW US on Instagram&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/booking">HERE</a> with Emily at <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/">The Sexual Wellness Centre</a>
<a href="https://www.sexwithlex.com.au">www.sexwithlex.com.au</a>
Instagram @sexwithlexmelb

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