Join us as Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz discuss that the foundation for true connection is within ourselves. We will be talking about four guiding principles that will help you develop a meaningful marriage. Come to discover your strengths, learn how to turn towards your spouse, gain a vision for the marriage of your dreams, and see the value of fierce loyalty. 

0:00 –A happy “we” starts with a happy me: Four principles for happy healthy relationships.
1:17 –What does it mean to start whole in marriage?
3:10 –What is the best way to have a good marriage?
3:58--What is the difference between roots and fruits in thriving relationships?
5:05 --Foundations of friendship.
5:48 –The Roots: The power of humility, compassion, & positivity.
7:11 –Principle 1: Searching Inward
8:20 –How do I discover my character strengths?
9:38–What are Dr. Dave’s, Dr. Liz’s, & Rex’s top three Via Character Strengths?
12:50 –What do I do once I discover my Via Strengths?
13:35 –Building upon your partner’s strengths.
14:30 –Principle 2: Turn Outward.
15:50 –A word of caution.
16:39 –How do I turn outward towards my partner?
17:30 –See something -say something.
18:24–Emotional attunement.
19:10 –Principle 3: Look Upward
20:33 –How do I maintain vision?
21:49 –Principle 4: Press Forward.
22:33 –Learning to forgive quickly.
22:45 –Dr. Dave: Learning to stick it out.
24:02 –Fierce commitment.
25:00 –The 20% that drives you crazy.
26:20 –Getting our hearts right: How are you perceiving each other?
27:05 –Let’s Review: Turn Outward!
27:40 –How could my partner possibly love me?
28:20 –Let’s Review: Look Upward!
28:37 –Grow as you go.
29:02 –Let’s Review: Press Forward!
29:21 –Love fluctuates, commitment should never waiver.
30:48 –Nothing is ever wasted.
31:13 –Takeaways & Wrap up. 

Links:

“Beyond the Myth of Marital Happiness,” by Dr. Blaine Fowers

https://www.viacharacter.org/

“How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It,” by Pat Love and Steve Stosny

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