Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 4 years and at first, my marriage was great and my wife was sexy, classy and ratchet so we had a lot of fun together. She was a very sexual woman so she talked me in to going to a swingers group. My wife liked it so much that she started having an affair with one of the guys she’d had sex with at the swingers party. I found out and I was so hurt. She begged me to forgive her and I did, but things did not go back to normal in our marriage...............