Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m dating a man that has a beautiful personality and we clicked the moment we met but there’s a side to him that I just saw for the first time and I don’t know if I’m with the right man. He always smells amazing because he has lots of body oils, lotions and potions that he uses every day. He uses a lot more than I do so I used to joke him about his products. Then one day, I had bad cramps and he gave me a hot oil massage to ease the pain and it worked........................