Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve worked with a guy for over 6 years and over time, we became attracted to each other. We went out a few times and had several passionate kisses, but nothing more. He explained to me that he is in a dead-end marriage for 20 years and he lives in an apartment in the city and his wife lives in their house in the suburbs. I am divorced and my grown kids live with me. The married guy and I enjoy each other’s company but I told him we can’t have sex until he’s divorced. He says he loves and respects me, so it’s not a problem............