Dear Steve and Shirley, when you read my letter, I know you are going to think my boyfriend and I are young, but I am 43 and he is 48. We’ve been dating for 2 years and he is extremely intelligent. We both love the Lord and we have stable careers. So, here’s the problem. I still go out with my girlfriends and maintain a social life. Whenever I’m out, I’m not constantly checking my phone because I want to stay present with my friends..............