Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 49 year old black man and I met a 39 year old black female and we hit it off. She told me she’d just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship, so I wanted to treat her extra special. She told me that she wasn’t used to men being honest and reporting in to her throughout the day. I thought that it may be too much for me to handle, because she has major trust issues, but I stayed with her............