Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old divorced female with no children. I work full time and I am in school full time. I am finally able to pursue my dream of becoming a comedian. Since my divorce I've been very happy being single and carefree and dating. I don't want a serious relationship right now. See in the past I put all of my time and energy into helping my ex husband build his comedy career and like a dummy, I let my goals and dreams get lost in his shadow.....