Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my mid 30s. I’ve been married 13 years and we have 4 kids. In the beginning of our marriage, I was hardheaded and I had a lot of growing up to do. Seven years after we got married, I had an affair and my wife ended up catching us in the act, in my car. I fought hard to get my wife back and since then, I have been the ideal husband and father...............