Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 38 year old wife and mother of 4 beautiful daughters. My husband and I have been together for 18 years and married for 10. We have been living separately for the last 3 years because my husband accused me of cheating in the craziest way. Less than a year after our last daughter was born, he set up a tape recorder in our home to catch me cheating. He told me about the recording and then played the tape for me........................