Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old black man, married for 9 years. When I got married, I was young and still in the streets. Over time, I got an associate’s degree and I got a job in a position of leadership. But I was still hanging with the same crew and I got caught up and ended up in jail. A friend of mine asked me to drive him to the liquor store so I did..............................................