Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been together for four years and married for almost a year. I was planning to propose to her but she got pregnant and sped up the process. I’m 52 and she is 40 and is head over heels in love with our newborn. The baby is all she cares about. I overheard her telling her mother that she got exactly what she wanted, a man to take care of her and a son that looks like her.....................