Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 7 years and I’m almost divorced. My husband and I didn’t really know each other as well as we should’ve before we got married and we had arguments on a daily basis. I became bitter over his lack of attentiveness and he was tired of living with a crazy B. Those were his exact words the day he filed for divorce. He told me I am terrible in bed, teased me for gaining a few pounds and said he’s been miserable for seven years.................