Good morning Uncle Steve and Shirley. First let me say that I am addressing you as Uncle Steve because you are indeed an uncle to me. I don't have many men in my family and the ones I do have, I wouldn't dare ask them anything because all of their situations are jacked up. Background I've been lied to, put 2nd and not chosen so many times. Never fought for what I wanted or even spoke up about how I really felt. Always knew my worth but never live up to it. I finally made a choice not to settle for good enough.