Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old divorced woman, dating a 29 year old man that I’ve been friends with for years. I have two children from my marriage, so I sleep over at his house for now. I have a key to his house but we agreed that I’d call before I came over. I went over unannounced on New Year’s Eve, to drop off the champagne and fruit tray for the night. I pulled up and my cousin was walking out of his house..............