Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 23 years and my wife is very set in her ways. I listen to you all the time and I want your opinion on how to keep the spice in my marriage. Everything about my wife is old school and she doesn’t like change. We have not bought new furniture in 15 years and when I tried to redo my man cave, she got her sister’s old couch and recliner and had it in the basement when I got home one day........................