Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for the past 15 years. It’s been on and off again, but she’s the one for me. She’s my everything and our kids are my world. I bet you are wondering why I haven’t married her and maybe you can help me figure it out too. For the first few years of our relationship, we kept it on the downlow because of her age. She was sixteen when I started dating her and I was 19.....................