Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a man for six months now. He is divorced and has two kids, a 12 year old daughter and a 10 year old son. I have never had kids and I really like his. My only problem is that he still lets his kids sleep in the bed with him. Whenever I'm at his house, the kids still sleep in his bed with us. They spend the weekend with him every other week and I feel weird about sleeping with a 10 year old boy......