Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 63 year old black woman and I’ve never been married and I don’t have any children. I was raised to believe sex outside of marriage was wrong, so I didn’t have sex until I was 32 years old. It was never that exciting to me, so I did not put much effort into having a great sex life. I always met and dated great guys, but they would all tell me that I had no passion or promise in the bedroom. For that same reason, I have never had an orgasm until this year....................