Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for ten years and he has the biggest heart. His empathy towards his fellow man is what made me fall in love with him. However, his big heart has been a big problem lately. He does community outreach for struggling adults and last year he met a guy that was trying to get his life back on track, so my husband helped this man get a job and a apartment. The problem is, now this man is one of my husband’s best friends and I can’t stand him..............