Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year old divorced woman and I recently got divorced because my husband caught me cheating on him. I had been having an affair with my boss for a few years and it was all going good until my boss found out I was seeing a guy that used to work for him. He got irate and acted out while we were in the office so everyone figured out what was going on. His niece works in our office and she started the rumor, which lead to my husband finding out...................................