Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 37 year old man and I've been dating a 31 year old woman for three years. She is the love of my life and I want to ask her to marry me, but I recently found out some disturbing info about her. I got an anonymous message on social media and it got my full attention. The message said that my woman was very friendly in all caps very friendly with a lot of guys when she was in college, especially the athletes. I was shocked and angry. So I confronted her immediately......