Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old female currently dating a 35 year old male and we’ve known each other for years. When he was married, I was his sidepiece. When he got divorced, I was married and he was my sidepiece. I got divorced and we decided it was time to stop playing games and become a couple. We got together and made it official four months ago. He is everything I ever wanted in a man but he has some trust issues.................