Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an ordained minister and I’ve been a pastor at my church for 13 years. I’ve been married three times so I’m single by choice now. The church had a problem at first with a nice looking and suave single pastor but I managed to keep them out of my business until recently. My first wife went public with the details of our divorce about a month ago and that snowballed into an all-out investigation into my dealings with other women in our church................