Good morning Steve Shirley Tommy and Carla. I listen to your show everyday on my way to work and was wondering if you could give me some advice. I'm a 31 year old mother of two and I've been married for over seven years. I've noticed that our relations meaning my husband and I have decreased to almost nothing. I have to almost coax him into having relations both times while I was pregnant. It was like pulling teeth. My aunt was amazed as to how I even got pregnant not once but twice. Anyway I remember Steve saying a while ago that even when men are sick they still want to have sex. Here's a problem.