Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married twice and I believe my second husband was the man of my dreams, but I truly didn’t see it at the time. During my second marriage, I got bored with the relationship, even though he was a great man. He had a tendency to be jealous, so I stopped hanging out with my girlfriends to keep the peace at home. After about 3 years of staying home, I decided to start back meeting my girlfriends after work often. My husband would be angry when I got home, but I didn’t care, because I had met a handsome and intriguing man and I was having an affair..............