Dear Steve and Shirley, I may need Tommy and J to offer some advice with this one, if you don’t mind, since they’re the side piece experts on the show. I have been a proud side chick to a married man for over 7 years. I knew what was up when we met and I was fine with it. I was happy to provide laughter, fun times and a lot of great sex once or twice a week. For the most part, I’ve held up my end of the deal. Now that we’re getting older, he’s been expecting more from me......................