Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 56 years old and I’m dating a 61 year old man that is separated from his wife. He had been pursuing me for a while and when he got a legal separation and moved out, we started dating. That was four years ago and our relationship isn’t what it used to be because his divorce has taken a toll on him. He has paid over $12K to his attorney and he’s got to pay the wife’s legal fees too............