Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with the same man for 11 years and he asked me to marry him 4 years ago. Now all of a sudden, he wants to set a wedding date, but I do not want to. I met him in college and I thought we were destined to have a great love story. I was 20 and he was 22 and our chemistry was amazing. When I was 22, I got pregnant and we moved in together.............................