Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 55 year old black man and I’ve been divorced for two years and I feel that I’m a great catch for a nice single woman.  Last summer, I met a beautiful and curvy lady one morning when I stopped to get coffee on my way to work. I flirted with her and she flirted back, so I asked if I could get her number. We exchanged numbers and I told her I would call her later on that day. I started out with a text to break the ice… she told me that she was 31 years old and I felt funny about telling her my age right off, because I wanted to see if we were compatible.............