Dear Steven Shirley, I've been dating a beautiful woman for about five months. Everything is great. She's special and she does a lot for me. Here's the problem, we've run into a big issue whenever we discuss her sleeping over at my house, she asked me how many sexual partners have I had and undoubtedly there have been quite a few. Then she asked me how many women have been in my bed. That was a tough question to answer. Undoubtedly there have been quite a few.....