Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 38 and I married my beautiful wife 5 years ago. We both have great jobs and we bought a big house for our family. When we got married, she came with 3 kids and her nephew that she’s raising for her sister. No problem, I did not have children and I loved being a father all of a sudden. I have a job that involves a lot of travel and for the past year, I’ve been out working overseas and I came home as much as possible..............