Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in love with a woman that has carried herself like a garden tool all of her life. In other words, she’s been “loose” since high school when we started dating. I dated her into my early 20s and after we broke up, I found out that she cheated multiple times. Here we are, 15 years later and she’s married now and she’s cheating on her husband with me. I have a connection with this woman and I can finally admit, after years of fighting it, I am in love with her...........................