Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old single woman and my long-time friend has two children by my brother. He’s a business owner and he’s in several civic organizations in our city. From the outside looking in, it looks like his life is in order, but it’s not. He’s been going through ups and downs with my friend for many years. My friend is in love with the lifestyle my brother gives her, but she does not want to settle down and marry him......................................................