Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married man and I work a few part- time jobs. I make really good money, so my line of work has never been an issue in my marriage. I work as a modern-day gigolo and I mostly get paid to entertain women at corporate events, dinners and family functions. I also have a few older ladies that call me if they need a tune-up, if you know what I mean. I get paid well for that, but I don’t do it often. My wife doesn’t know about that part of my job..................