Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a real big problem. I'm a 32-year-old single father of two kids and I fell in love with my doctor who's 6 years older than me. We had a loving and caring friendship that grew into a romance. It lasted more than a year and a half. When I found out she was married, it crushed me, but she told me she was leaving her husband. It didn't happen. Eventually, I decided to try to move on from her.................