Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 36 year old male and I misjudged my fiancé. I met her on social media and we had a long-distance relationship for five months. When I first visited her, I should have known better than to pursue her. She’s 32 years old and lives with her mom, her 3 children, her 2 sisters and 2 nieces. But she was always well put-together and she had her own tax business, so I gave it a chance.....................