Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 60 year old man and I have been married for 16 years. My wife is 13 years younger than I am and we don't see eye to eye on a serious issue. In the beginning our sex life was great but over the years we simmered down a bit. A year ago I went through a very serious health issue and during that time our sex life suffered. I made a full recovery and when I was ready for some action my wife was acting like she was afraid to touch me. I had to beg for sex and when we did do it, it wasn't very exciting. One day I just told her that I was not being satisfied and she told me that while I was sick she found other ways to get a little pleasure.............