Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a woman in my late twenties and my man is 32 years old. He has only had one other girlfriend and he’s inexperienced in being romantic. I’m all about the romance so I’m really into romantic comedies, but I think they are ruining my love life. I love my boyfriend. He has so many great qualities but when it comes to romancing me and woo’ing me, he falls short. I’m very particular in how I like things, so I think he's developed a mindset that it’s better to do nothing at all, than to do something that I will not like.................