Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are both 28 years old and we have a 2 year old daughter. He’s white and I’m black. He is a semi-pro athlete and we live in a nice community of young couples. I work in hospital administration and we met when he came to speak to our pediatrics unit. We will be married a year in December, if we make it, because my husband really showed out this summer.......................