Dear Steve and Shirley, I am the pretty young thing that wrote you about my lover that is the same age as my father. I took Shirley’s advice and asked my lover if the relationship was going anywhere or if it was just a fling. He told me that in due time our relationship would get to the next level. I didn’t like his answer, so I broke it off with him. Two days later, he sent flowers to my job and my house. I still ignored him..................