Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 25 year old female that has been dating a 55 year old man for 2 years. He is the same age as my father and he’s very established and he takes good care of me. He has 3 children that are around my age and they don’t seem to have a problem with us dating. I don’t want to have any kids and he doesn’t want anymore, so that’s not an issue...............