Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 53 year old man and I have been married for going on 25 years. My wife and I use to have an active sex life, but for the past few years the magic has been happening less and less and now we do it once or twice a year. I’ve talked to her about it but she always seems to make up excuses. The one I hear the most is that she’s not in the mood because I’ve made her mad about something...............