Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 31 year old married woman and I’ve been married for 8 years and we have four kids. In the beginning, our sex life was amazing and our intimate sessions would last for hours. But after four kids, it’s basically non-existent and when we do have sex, it’s terrible and boring. There is no spice in our love life because my husband is tired. It’s just sex and then he goes to sleep, leaving me wanting more. We have sex once a week so I can fulfill my duties as a wife, but I get my satisfaction elsewhere................